Couples are using a viral AI agent to do their emotional labor. It’s been helpful — and chaotic. (www.businessinsider.com)

A new AI assistant, Instinct, is gaining traction among couples in Silicon Valley for handling emotional labor in relationships. Launched in August, the invite-only platform is designed to streamline mundane tasks like scheduling and organizing plans. A recent update, the "Trusted Person" feature, allows users' Instinct agents to communicate with each other. Users report that it alleviates repetitive tasks, like coordinating family logistics, providing some relief from the mental load typically shouldered by one partner. However, the integration of AI agents into personal relationships is not without complications. Critics argue that while Instinct may simplify certain aspects, it could also gloss over deeper relational issues and introduce new dynamics. Concerns have emerged about privacy, as the AI requires access to sensitive personal information to function effectively. Moreover, instances of AI miscommunication and the risk of one partner feeling responsible for the agent's performance could lead to new sources of conflict. Ultimately, while Instinct can enhance efficiency, it raises larger questions about emotional engagement and the authenticity of interpersonal connections fostered through technology.